April 20, 2012

Friday Five: Mushy Edition

Today is my five-year wedding anniversary! Five years ago today, Justin and I were doing this:

Oh hai, new husband!

Why, yes, we got married on 4/20! Yes, people get a little chuckle out of this. And yes, you may laugh too.

Actually, I wanted to get married on 4/21, but that date was booked so we had to settle for 4/20. Ah well! At least, we can giggle about our wedding date, right?

Five years into this marriage thing, I can safely say that Justin might be the best husband ever. Whenever I feel a little blue, he takes me out for hot chocolate. Whenever I doubt my career, he lets me cry on his shoulder. Whenever I get tired of cooking, he looks at me and says, "Well, that's no good. Wanna go out?" And he's just plain thoughtful. Sometimes, late at night, he sends me an email  just so I have a sweet note to read when I wake up in the morning.

I'm a lucky gal. Very, very lucky. And I need to step up my game!

I can't write about Justin without mentioning how incredibly supportive he has been of my writing endeavors. When we got married, I had to quit my job at the Smithsonian and move down to North Carolina since Justin was stationed there. Honestly, I was ready to leave the museum field---as much as I love museums, I think I prefer to be a visitor rather than an employee---but I wasn't quite sure what to do next.

"Why don't you try writing?" Justin told me. "You keep telling me how you always wanted to be a writer."

So, with Justin's encouragement, I dove into this writing gig and he has always been behind me, even when the times got tough. 'Cause it took me about nine months to get my very first essay accepted for publication, and it took me much longer to write my first book and get it ready for querying. (Oh dear, querying. Poor Justin! I was such a mess.) And I'm still working toward that hard-to-reach book deal.

But he's still my biggest fan.

"You're going to be published one day," he tells me.

And I hope I will, for him.

Happy anniversary, my love! I miss you and can't wait for you to come home. To five years and to many, many more!

Justin hates taking pictures. I still love him.


  1. Oh, good grief... you two are adorable! I love that second photo of Justin hiding his face! He sounds like such a fantastic guy... supportive hubbies are the best. Happy Anniversary, Caroline!

  2. Your pictures are so cute! I love them, and I love that you are clearly so happy together. Happy Anniversary!

  3. I love the second picture it captures you both so well! I can hear Justin grumbling and grunting! Happy Anniversary!

  4. Happy Anniversary Caroline! I love the photos.

    But I am clearly a bit slow (or british) but I don't get why 4/20 should cause a chuckle. I'm perplexed explain please??

  5. Aaah, you two are too cute! This whole post is full of adorable (and oh my, I love your whole ensemble in those pics)! Congrats and Happy Anniversary!!!

  6. Congratulations! I love your examples of his support for your writing. What a sweetheart. :3

  7. Your pictures are SO ADORABLE. So glad to hear he's as lovely as he looks! Happy anniversary, and may you have many more! :)

  8. 5 years! Holy cow! Justin is a lucky lucky guy. I'm glad he appreciates my sweet Caroline and makes you happy. :)

  9. A belated happy anniversary!! :)

  10. Aww this is so cute! My husband is really supportive of my writing too, and I just couldn't do it without him!

    Glad I stumbled on your blog via Absolute Write! New follower!